That's exactly it! When I'm already at the event, it feels terribly unfair to have that FOMO sense. (I know a big enough event will always require you to make choices between the different things to go do, but it's rough to feel like you have to weigh the one thing you most want to do against basically anything else on offer.) And ugh, seriously about the upcharges. It used to be very few things required an extra fee, and now it seems like almost everything does! A bummer.